You’ve been trying hard to relax lately, to be flexible and open to the world, but you’re not finding it easy. You might decide this week that it’s time to give up on being “chill” and to start asserting yourself again. If you’re sick of letting other people set the terms of the conversation, make your voice heard. If you feel like you’re always bending over backward for everyone around you, remind them that you have needs, too. It’s important to remember that while you can’t control everything, you still get a say.