You’re often drawn to people who are every bit as driven as you are, with personalities strong enough to match your own. But while this leads to friendships and relationships that are profound and beautiful, it can also lead to intractable conflict. It’s impossible to resolve anything when both parties are so stubborn neither will yield an inch. If you’re stuck in this kind of conflict, think creatively about how to shake things loose. It’s not about giving up or giving in, but about finding a place where genuine listening and forward movement become possible again.